Trust in the words you hear or trust in the ones you believe

A drama moved my heart and made me think once again.

Reflect on yourself.
or... let me ask u this question

If your friend told you that your close one took your phone when actually she didnt but your friend did.
Puts it in your close one bag and makes all evidence pointing at her.

You would believe your friend wont u.
But then, what abt your wrongfully accused close one.
Did you just forgot about how close both of you were together? is that foundation of trust really not established?

search within yourself of how screwed up you actually are. imagine a sceanrio that if this would happen. would you jump at conclusions? really you wont?

This is the sad life of friends, husbands, wife or whatever u consider as close.
There is no such thing as that unless you have complete faith in that person. then again, wont you doubt yourself ?

the world is really a creepy one. just be careful of whose words you chose to believe




JNZL

what we have is not ours to keep

There are some ironies in life which i cant iron it out.

Let's dive into the topic of getting hold of something.

Imagine your whole life, you do not own something you really like. You wont have anything to lose.
But once you got hold of that something, you have everything to lose.

You will be afraid of losing it in the future.
It applies to relationship.

Imagine that in your life till now, you do not accept any offers to be in a relationship.
Hence you do not get to taste the joy of being love and whatever that comes with it.
However, you are constantly on your toes of what belongs to you may not be yours anytime soon.

THE WORST PART? When you finally lost it, you feel weird.
You crave for those happy moments that you had when you were both tgt.

However do not forget that you were once happy too without anyone.
So, imagine you rejected the offer to be together. The only hurtful part is when the other gets taken. But so what?! that is just that part.

You dont feel empty because of what you had experienced.
People always say, OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND.
Slowly but surely, you will move on but, you had not tasted the happiness of being tgt with someone. Hence you do not know what is it like to not be with someone.

Its the same as flat feett people. you cant ask them what do you think it feels to not have flat feet because they cant experience it and, they have lived with it their whole life~

Hence they dont understand when, you tell them that flat feet people when they run, they feel more pain than those who are not.

It the same for those who were single till now. They have not experienced what does it feel, to not be happy being just single.

SO, THE QUESTION IS...
are they truly deprived? must you live thru heartaches and tears filled face, in order to say that you have lived your life?

Think about how happy these singles are without needing to yearn for the company of someone just because they miss it. they are self satisfied.

So, isnt it better to just be single from the start?

JNZL