There are some ironies in life which i cant iron it out.
Let's dive into the topic of getting hold of something.
Imagine your whole life, you do not own something you really like. You wont have anything to lose.
But once you got hold of that something, you have everything to lose.
You will be afraid of losing it in the future.
It applies to relationship.
Imagine that in your life till now, you do not accept any offers to be in a relationship.
Hence you do not get to taste the joy of being love and whatever that comes with it.
However, you are constantly on your toes of what belongs to you may not be yours anytime soon.
THE WORST PART? When you finally lost it, you feel weird.
You crave for those happy moments that you had when you were both tgt.
However do not forget that you were once happy too without anyone.
So, imagine you rejected the offer to be together. The only hurtful part is when the other gets taken. But so what?! that is just that part.
You dont feel empty because of what you had experienced.
People always say, OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND.
Slowly but surely, you will move on but, you had not tasted the happiness of being tgt with someone. Hence you do not know what is it like to not be with someone.
Its the same as flat feett people. you cant ask them what do you think it feels to not have flat feet because they cant experience it and, they have lived with it their whole life~
Hence they dont understand when, you tell them that flat feet people when they run, they feel more pain than those who are not.
It the same for those who were single till now. They have not experienced what does it feel, to not be happy being just single.
SO, THE QUESTION IS...
are they truly deprived? must you live thru heartaches and tears filled face, in order to say that you have lived your life?
Think about how happy these singles are without needing to yearn for the company of someone just because they miss it. they are self satisfied.
So, isnt it better to just be single from the start?
JNZL
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