understanding

well, i am now weighing at 68.4kg! yay!!!

somehow, being with together with someone for a prolonged period of time makes you adapt to the person as well. i am fortunate that i am able to do it and technically i became a calmer person and just let the flow of life get the better of me.

well I AM STILL VERY SWEET AND NICE. However, if you were to step into ur own shoes 'sounds weird' and look at it in a way like, how u would react if there was a person who is treating you just like how u have been treating other people! hope that make sense.

i realised being too nice and sweet is something that many ppl may or will find it annoying after some time. its just like ur mom being all too sweet and nice and many people will still find it a nuisance!

however, in my perspective, i always thought that "why are people stepping over my head and not appreciating me for all that i do "

well, i turned it around and asked myself that for all these while, my mom is treating me very nicely, but somehow i did not really like it and treated it as nagging while i prefered ppl who treats me less nicely. HOW WEIRD AM I HUH!

so i used this theory on people that are stepping over me and it worked wonders for me. u see, ppl dont usually appreciate ppl's efforts. well that is well there are so many quotes and pics to remind us to appreciate ppl. SEE IT MAKE SENSE.

its just like a balance, if u do less for the other party, naturally the other party will work harder FOR YOU. and they don't really feel it too! however i never said i was mean in anyway. ALL I DID, was to be cool and calm and just you know, do the minimum or maybe go for the extra mile if needed or if i feel like it. you would realise somehow, those that kept taking will start to give back to you too!


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